No one speaks for me unless they want to get clobbered. If something offends me or bothers me, I tell the person myself, with lots of graphics.

But let's get a grip here about generalizing the conduct of a culture. I do not agree with what some people do, but I respect their right to do as they please.
I think Ana is right about women having a stronger nesting instict than men, not to say that there are exceptions to that as well. some women have been known to throw their newborn offspring into garbage dumps in NYC as well as here. Some men have no idea how many kids they have spread out. These aren't things that happen just in the DR or US. Neither is casual sex a local idea. I just get the impression that in the past 15 years or so, what was once the exception is becoming the norm. So how do us old fosils deal with it?
By the way, I'll look up that article that Jim wrote. Thanks
