Women like casual sex as well but because of the weird moral standards we have, they like to keep it quiet except among their close friends. You should see all the single women at the Hamaca walking the beach with a Dominican man. Most of these women are unattractive by my standards and in their home country wouldn't be caught dead with a man groping and kissing them in public. They let their hair down and have wild nights just like a man would do, because cultural rules and roles aren't in place at that moment and place, no one that knows them to place a stigma on them are around. Culture and norms have handed women an unfair role that is a double standard, the man is a stud and the women is a whore. Through centuries the woman has been handed the role of the nurturer in most cultures and are taught, whether they recognize it or not, that they are supposed to feel emotion and intimacy with sexual activity. Men are raised to feel that "sowing their oats" is acceptable and a normal activity. I am speaking for most societies though there are always exceptions to all rules. I can detach emotional feelings through sexual activity because I was raised that way, I don't know any other way. I have never had that feeling of love as of yet, in my life. I am in favor of the pursuit of pleasure as long as it doesn't harm anyone in the process, at least intentionally. I encourage women to break the norms and values set upon them and have fun in their lives. Life is to short to worry about what others may think of you. Don't look at sex as having to committ and that there is something wrong with you if you take pleasure in carnal actions. People that are repressed sexually usually are the ones who attack those who are enjoying life to the fullest, and I believe, too scared to take the plunge of decadence and delightful pleasure because of how society would view them and thinking that casual sex is dirty or wrong. This is a typical Puritanical mindset that is usually associated with religion upbringing and view life as conformity. Most of those women on vacation who experience great casual sex will go back to their country and start living their frigid lives once again. Women enjoy sex as much as men and so I say, if you can enjoy sex without emotional baggage, do it. If you get it for free do it, if you pay for it, do it. Why fight biological urges? Why miss out on a good thing and lead a rigid life of conformity and following all the rules that society has placed upon our shoulders?
dale7(pleasure seeker)
