You gotta realize...
Most people coming here for vacation to the resorts do not have any idea what a sanky is. They've heard of Gigalos from the movies but never hears of a Sanky. To them its only a man from another country thats paying attention to them. Its fun and exciting. I've been there. Sometimes it takes a while to realize that this person does it with all the tourists and sometimes it just doesn't matter. If you've only got a week and your on vacation. Ita all fun.
But if it lasts longer, most women can understand after a while that its a gigalo/sanky and they let it go.
Me I was a little slow. I met a tennis pro at a resort in Punta Cana and he was nice. We cicn't do any more than talk and kiss a little. But he invited me back to visit Santo Domingo and he said he'd pay for everything. I figured I'd take him up on the deal, it was a chance to see another country in real life. I was prepared cause I learned not to trust people. I made sure I had enough money to pay for the hotel and all incase he was a s**t. I came and he didn't show up at the airport(his friend had a motorcycle wreck and he has to work his shfts and he had no money to pay for me cause he had to pay for his friends hospital stay, yea right!)
When he finally showed up at my hotel all smiles and acting like it was nothing. I kicked him out. I told him I wasn't paying for a giglo..didn't know the sanky word then. I even took a picture of him calling the taxi to leave. He told me that when I understood that he was the only one for me and when I apologised to him he would come back! I laughed at him too hard!
But really I am very grateful to him. If it wasn't for him I for sure would have never discovered this country and ended up moving here to live. He may be a nasty human but I will always be thankful to him for being that way.
Funny thing is I saw him about 1 month ago walking down El Conde with a larger white girl. He saw me and gave a little smile but I pretended I didn't see him.
Bless you my Sanky for introducing me to this country! Never forget you!
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