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    Phyllis
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    Default Attention Dominican Men

    I posted this earlier in one of the message threads - but I'm sure it won't get read as much, so here is my question again, Quote: I agree with what "DR Defender" said - not all are players! Some (and probably most) are players, but hey so are the woman who go down there and want it! Afterall there must be a demand if there are so many DR men offering...

    But here is a question for the Dominican men, and please be honest: if the DR men are players and know it and are "allowed" to have many tourist women, then why can't the tourist women be players while they are in the DR on vacation, and have many DR men? Most messages on this board seems like, if you hook up with one DR guy for the week, then you can NOT spend anytime with another DR guy that week???

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    Wendy Friesen
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    I agree with you on the fact that the tourist women can do just the same as the men. I found that they were quite protective when it came to the women of the week. I never quite understood it either. When talking to one of them they informed me that the man was in control in the relationship. I believe that this plays a big part in the fact that there are double standards.

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    Sue
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    Hi Phyllis - who says you can't hook up with more than one guy for the week? It's your money, it's your vacation, it's your life - you can do whatever you want. Enjoy!

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    louise
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    Default Machismo???

    I'm guessing here... But could it be that the pride/Machismo which Dominican men seem to thrive on is a key to the 'no no' for allowing their women to play? I have no idea... actually, I have no idea at all about the Machismo concept. Could anyone explain it - or attemt to explain it? Insights would be appreciated and might help me (a cold Nordic girl) understand Latin culture in it's broadest sense better. Thanks, Louise

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    JCesar
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    Default Re: Machismo???

    If you know what feminismo is, then you know what machismo is. Just interpolate the genders.

    (From a warm water laundry cycle caribbean boy)

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    Lynda
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    Dominican men are very jealous when you speak to another fellow, even if he is a shop clerk. They don't want to share the wealth that they have found. My friend (not lover) always asks me "Why do you speak to him?" He is terrified that I will meet someone else and that his family will lose my friendship. He just had a baby and I'm still friends with his family.

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    nobodys fool
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    Its obvious that most of the single women that are around or dating Dominican men, are seasoned world travelers and just want a taste of a well hunged Dominican male. And the Dominican male is there to accomodate them and get what ever else they can. So every body plays off each other.

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    Julie
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    Obviously, you are an idiot. Some of us are NOT seasoned travelers. Some of us had NO idea that all the smooth, romantic lines the Dominican men were giving us, were just lies. Some of us are naive mid-western Amerian girls who have never heard a compliment nicer than, "hey baby, nice ass". So, when we visit the Dominican and have a gorgeous man tell us how lovely our eyes are, or how beautiful we are.... we fall for it. I, for one, was NOT just interested in a well "hunged" (as you put it) Dominican. I was drawn to the compliments that I don't normally hear from American men and actually believed that those compliments were sincere. So, idiot, some of us were unfortunate and didn't realize we were being played. Not every woman goes to a foreign country to get laid. And, especially not by arrogant pricks like you. But, thanks for sharing your opinion on how Dominican men really see us foreign tourists.

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    trina
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    I met my Dominican boyfriend at his baseball game. He doesn´t drink, and I know, with everything in my heart, that he would never cheat on me. These men are few and far between, and I am very lucky. Even Dominican girls that I know tell me that he is a great guy, and that I am so lucky. Girls, I think the chances of meeting a NICE man at a bar, on the beach, or at the hotel are next to nil. Go to a ballgame, or other sporting event, or a movie, never to the above to meet a nice guy. You have to remember, these men are used to tourists, who come to the DR, are plied by drinks, and take the guy home to sleep with. No man, Dominican or otherwise, will respect a girl who does this. If you want to keep a Dominican man, take it slow. Don´t sleep with him right away. Anyone will tell you that Canadian girls here have a horrible reputation. I, too, am Canadian, and know where this is coming from. They show you all the attention in the world until you sleep with them, and then it´s over, unless they want something more, like your money. By the time you´ve figured out their program, either you´ve already been dumped, or you dump them, and go for another Dominican, who will do the exact same thing. Keep in mind, the second Dominican already knows that you have slept with the first Dominican, because they all talk. They are used to women coming down for 1 or 2 weeks, and by the time you´ve gone home, they´ve already talked you out of money, and you have no self-respect left. And guess what? When you go home, it´s on to the next, what most call ¨frusfleis¨, which is German for ¨fresh meat¨. Most can convince you that they are with you, and only you, and their friends will attest to it. What do their friends care about you? They just agree so their buddy will do it back for them. I live here, and unfortunately, see it time and time again. And feel very lucky to have the boyfriend that I have.

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    JCesar
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    Hey nobody's fool! Which one, in your opinion, qualify more appropriately as a predatory specie roaming the DR land: the Dominicus Tiguerazosiburus Avivatoex or the Touristus Hornivurus Vagamundarex?

    Thanks for answering and contributing to the advancement of science.

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