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Originally Posted by Talldrink

Chucky, I see your point (I think) However, I feel a little different than you do. See, I am Dominican and I was raised with the mentality that the man needs 'special' attention and needs to be serviced. I don’t have a problem playing this role, as long as all my hard work is reciprocated with love and attention from my mate. I LIKE to serve and please my husband - not that I feel I HAVE to, where is the love here? See, if you care and are grateful for the love and attention you are given, it is only to your benefit. You can get so much more from a woman by just being plain ol’ nice to her!

I don’t expect my man to do chores (honestly, I’m anal when it comes to cleaning – think Monica from Friends – so cleaning is MY thing) but if I cooked a good meal and I get a kiss on the cheek, a thank you for the cooking and maybe a compliment for how good it was, I would be smiling away the entire time I’m doing the dishes and he is off doing something else (most likely watching TV). I wouldn’t be disgruntled because he is not helping me right this minute.

There are many things that Dominican women ‘soportan’ to keep peace at home. And in all honesty, not sweating the little things is much better than bickering over who should have the power at home. As long as there is love and respect in a relationship, in my opinion, the man will be a King along with his Queen in the kingdom.




It doesnt matter what the wife does at home, if the man wants to cheat (instead of trying to figure out what he is lacking at home) he will do it regardless if he had a harem of wives that called him 'Master' at home...

Talldrink, will you marry me?