Well since I am reading all of these wounderful stories I might as well add mine. I met and married a dominican in NY on 2/14/91 I was 21 and he was 32He was so bad that I swore off the race and refused to look at another. I finally divorced him in 4/94.
But the last 6 months of our relationship I used to leave the house to go to a friends all the time. I was there one day and my friend introduced me to her husbands brother in law (more or less) newly in NY I might add so first thing I thought was oh great another one trying to get a green card. My friend would tell me that he says all the time tell her I love her and I have to meet her and so forth and so on. Now since I was swearing off the race for the bad apple I was with I didnt want anything to do with him.
Poor Juan he never really had a chance. But after almost 6 months of always showing up when I came around and always having flowers, kind words, a shoulder to cry on or yell at depending on my mood. We had become friends and I found that I really liked him. I went out on a date with him and that was all she wrote. we courted for a short time than one day we said (after my divorce which he paid for) lets make it offical. We got a gorup of friends together and got married and had a block party that brought the cops around several times.
We have had our ups and downs and even seperated for a while but not to long. And June 30 2005 we drunk wine to our 10th yr as husband and wife. We have an understanding that no one else can figure out and although it has not been so easy all the time we faught, loved, hated, needed, respected each other till we now have a bond that no one can break.He is my rock and I am his. If I need he is there and vise versa. We do not have any kids as I didnt want any in the relationship too fast but now that we have the 10th yr passed we are trying to have some so wish us luck. and this is why i use this name LoveMyDRHusband cause I do with all my heart!!!
Oh and for the record I am fair (wht american)and he is well lets just say he isnt lol.
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