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Originally Posted by qgrande
Mirador's answer is much better,
But maybe you should try doing a better job at convincing those 20 year old girls they have been programmed by society and should actually fall in love with you.... Maybe you can show them the studies....
I wonder whether you also have the impression 20 year old guys have been 'programmed by society to reject' 40 year old women...
But, well, with a 30-35 / 18-20 relatonship you will certainly not stand out in the Dominican Republic. Do you alreadly have a girl in mind or are you just planning?
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Thanks for your comment. I am not interested in convincing American or Mexican women that they should fall in love with me. There is no way a single man can change a prejudiced society. Just look at all the racial/ethnic discrimination that still goes on in the US and other countries and hasn't been changed by centuries of civil rights struggle and blah, blah. I have no interest in changing society's aberrations. There are certainly many countries where these aberrations are less present and I would like to live in one of them. The USA and Mexico are not on this list and I probably will never marry an American or a Mexican since women from these countries tend to be materialistic, obsessed with status and less feminine. Also, I prefer women that are at least 10 years younger than me simply because they look more attractive to me than women in their 30's. Beauty and youth are very important to a man. Just look at all the foreign men that go to the DR. They don't go there looking for 50 year old women, do they?? They usually go for the young women. I don't believe 20 year old men have been programmed by SOCIETY to reject 40 year old women. I think they have been programmed by NATURE to prefer youth. Nature wants men to look for fertility and energy in a woman while women are programmed by nature to look for the four aspects I mentioned earlier though society has imposed a new requirement: small age gap. I don't have a girl in mind now, I'm just planning to meet someone special in the near future to start a family and raise my kids in a country where there is less discrimination on the basis of race and age.