Advice: time for me to meet her in DR
Ok I have finally decided to go ahead and hit the DR. I would like a little advice. I will try to answer some of the questions before they are asked. I am a 31 year old (look way younger) african american man. I'm considered very attractive here in NY. (Not tooting my own horn) and I'm a Realtor (not rich but doin well) anyway I date primarily black americans and puerto rican or Dominican women here (and also in Miami when I was living there) I have been "talkin" to 2 women in the Dom Rep. For several months now. I met one on yahoo and the other on another site. They both call from time to time. Not long calls but enough to say hi and small talk. One mentioned a bday that recently passed. I sent her 20 bucks WU. No big deal to me. Women always want something lol other than that neither have asked for money. They both have made it clear they would like to get married and move,etc. (Which me being single and no kids as of yet is actually ok... Not this year but... Maybe in the future) anyway... I'm going down there to stay for about a week. One lives in La Romona and the other in Santo Domingo. My spanish is ok not fluent but I can understand it more than I can speak it so I'm usually ok. They have both offered to let me crash at their homes (which they share with family) but suggested wed be better off at a hotel. Which I have no prob with. Obviously I need to split my time between the two.. That's no prob. I expect to have to spend some money on them just as I would here. So what I'm asking from those in the know is exactly how would u go about this situation. A hotel far from their homes? One has a 4 yr old so I guess shed have to get a sitter or let her sis handle that. I am told neither have boyfriends,etc cause they are busy working in the store,etc I'm not too worried about that cause I haven't been there. So I'm sure if they do that won't be an issue when I'm there. What else should I look out for? How should I play this situation to make sure it goes smoothly. I already know about the "tigres" and I'm not that worried about them.
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