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Originally Posted by Suzie
.A cousin of my friend was joking around with his mother, with whom he is close ( a self proclaimed total mama's boy), and in jest, to get a rise out of her, he reached out to grab her crotch and she smacked his hands away as it was about an inch away. I was completely shocked as I think this is one of the rudest and most disrespectful move a man can make on a woman...and his mother especially!! But she reacted like it was a normal thing for her 19 year old son to do, akin to reaching for a cookie jar. I expressed my shock to my friend and he said that his cousin does it all the time, and he does it to his sister (17) too. No big deal, it's just all jokes. I didn't venture to ask if my friend does this as well because frankly, I'm afraid of the answer. I am wondering if this is acceptable behavior among certain classes in the DR, because I find it really disturbing.
Also, it was noted in some threads that Dominicans are less sexually conservative than North Americans ... is this just inside the bedroom, or does it extend to other areas so as to normalize other behaviors that North Americans might disagree with?
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I have a few things to tell you because this behavior is just sickening!. Please, read very carefully!
1- This has nothing to do with ANY class. There are lowlives in ALL classes. That guy IS a lowlife.
2- No, that is NOT acceptable in the Dominican culture, only on the lowlife culture.
3- To put your hand on a female's, ANY female, crotch just to get a "rise out of her", is not only sick but also very stupid and infantile. Only an inmature and lowlife prick would do such a thing.
And, read the below a few times or until it sinks in:
4- Run as fast as you can from your friend. Why?, because if he thinks that "it's no big deal" and "it's just all jokes", that means that he sees nothing wrong with it and when one sees nothing wrong in something that IS wrong, he, also, would not hesitate to do it too. In a way, from his reaction, he is condoning(?) it.
What a sick pig!!
Please, AZB, spare us the "this does not happen... blah blah blah". Guess what, when the Dominican elite take a crap, a perfume aroma does not comes out. Caviar crap smells the same as chimichurry crap!!.
This happens in ALL classes.