How do you know if you are dealing with the modern dominican woman or a come c'mia. Put her to the test. If she fails what follows, caveat emptor. or maybe that's what you want, a modern relationship that's 50/50.
1) Don't cave into her desires.
2) Tell her what you like and what you don't, what you expect from her in a marriage.
3) Yes, you are looking for girl to cook, clean and take care of you if that's what you want. If you'll help in the household tell her exactly what you will and will not do.
4) Don't whitewash any of the above if that is what you are looking for.
5) Of course be friendly, cordial, smiling, kind etc.
6) Don't be despotic but firm.
7) American men are taken as wealklings by DR women who think they can have their way. Show them this ain't true.
8) Remember don't be abusive. Be suave but firm. It's your way or the highway.
8) Stand your ground, dammit, are you guys men or what?!
9) If she agrees, you got what you want.
10) If you got what you want, treat her well, take her out and appreciate all the nice things she is doing for you.
11) If she doesn't agree with what you are looking for, then the hell with her. NEXT!!
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