Thank you so much everyone for all your helpful replies... yes you are all right, it would be nothing but trouble to even try to be "friends" with this guy since I apparently still have feelings for him... it is sad but I have to let go before it gets worse. I am so glad and feel blessed to have found out he was married before this went any further.
Angel, he is only 20... so the fact that he has a 17 year old wife is not that shocking I guess but they have a kid together so it just seems so young for all of that to me! (I am 23.) Cultural difference I suppose.
In terms of moving on (and being in Latin America), I just hope I don't continually find myself in situations like this. It seems impossible to not get intimately involved with anybody while I am there but I really could do with out the heartbreak...
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