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Originally Posted by Angel_04

First of all, as already said, every relationship is different, and no one on here can tell you what every Dominican man expects.. most are pretty traditional with strong family values and have a very different way of looking at things than men in N.America... it's a very different culture than what I am sure you are used to. Sorry, but I am making an assumption that you are from N.America? (I apologize if you are not).

From my own experience, and my countless discussions on the topic with Dominican men... I would have to say, MOST Dominican men, it seems, do NOT like to have anything to do with ex girlfriends. They are very "territorial", if I may use that word--they wouldn't want to see their FRIENDS or any other man for that matter with that girl.. but they don't care to be friends with her. Now, if he is a sanky (hate to bring that up) then even more so... he would just let it go and move on to the next one. I can't tell you how many guys I know that have said, "oh no, over here, when we break up, that is it... we cannot be friends!" .. who knows... this is just what I have learned over the years.

Btw, if he is angry now and you are worried, perhaps you are better off leaving him alone and cutting your loses... if you are afraid and can't even talk to him, then that is no kind of relationship that you want any part of... you wouldn't want that escalating into some form of abuse...

This is a very wise post.

Avrora, pay particular attention to the last paragraph. If you search through the archives you'll find a few horror stories about some violent relationships.