Jenfau,
The best thing you could do is to move to the Dominican Republic for at least 6 months to a year. Live together and try to make a life. If you both still want to be together after a few months, then you will know its "reality". I was not able to do this and married my Dominican husband after 5 years. When he moved to Canada, he could not adapt to our culture so he didn't last here very long. I think if our bond was stonger, he may have been able to endure. We haven't seen each other in over a year but we still love each other very much. Unfortunately, in my case, love is not enough. You really need to read through the Sankie forum and take the comments very seriously especially if your beau is animaccion/dancer/tour operator. I'm sorry to point fingers but men in these occupations seem to have the most contact with tourists and to be qualified for same, are usually very outgoing and charming.
Good luck to you,
Nelly
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