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Originally Posted by billyidol
who cares what the ladies think with respect to ; love not having anything to do with sex'. Love is a little girls fantasy.
The fact is, love has nothing to do with sex. Ill explain my point of veiw....when a young boy first notices (at age 12 right through to 99 years) his tube-steak standing to attention. i am telling the women on this board now, his mind is not searching for someone to love deeply and intimately. He is in the mood for lust . Infact his mind and brain number 2 is only ever in the mood for LUST ! Thats the way it is, if your BF tells you any different he's lying...LYING TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!. Men are wired to F#$K
Did i respect her mind body and soul ...yes!!!(
SEX with someone that is actually desirable! Someone that is not wearing sweat pants and a top, and when they have finished their sexual escapade they return home to be with the one they truly love... themselves...i mean their wife.
So absolutely, love has nothing to do with sex....but you can still dream your little girl dream that it does!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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From time to time when I read things like these I have a moment where I half grudgeingly (sp?????) accept that this is how men are, this is their nature, they need to spread their seed, their dna.
I have realized that a man could love a woman very very much and still have sex with another woman for just the mere fact that he wants to spread his seed well actually he wants to try something different. I think I man can be faithfull with a woman he loves and desires for a while but I deeply doubt he can be faithful all his life, unless he has a very low libido.
So I think all marriages should be only made for the maximum of 5-10 years and the contracts could be extended at the end of the five years if both parties are in agreement. Everyone should have the right to switch partners after the end of the contract.
