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Originally Posted by stock
Hello all, it's been a while. About a year ago I joined this site with the hopes of getting some insight and then flying back to DR to find a young and sensible and attractive woman, and hopefully a keeper.
For those of you who don’t remember me or didn’t care at the time, I am a 42 year old professional who works out at the gym and STILL has a lot of good mileage in, (in other words I’m not busted up) Well instead of going to DR, I found a 26 year in NY and began dating her, can you believe that after a year or so I begin to notice some change in her (less sex drive, doesn't want to do anything, spending more time with her friends) I'm sure you are all saying ...Oh...Oh!
Turns out, her "Mommy" has been telling her for a few months that the "Age difference" is to great and that she should find someone closer to her age.....ERRRRRRRRRRR! Long story short, I broke it off. Here is a good example of the US vs. anywhere Caribbean!
I don't normally give in to a relationship for this reason, NOW my heart has been ripped out and placed on a plate with fly’s all around it.
I ask my fellow PROPHETS here on DR1, is this type of relationship possible in Dominican Republic, do I have to be rich, built like Fabio, be a Reggeaton rapper, someone please tell me the secret?
P.S. I am Cuban and speak 3 languages, so no communication gaps here!
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It is possible to find a good woman here in the DR. There are many good reasons to be careful and I am sure you are going to get some good advice and some getting knocked around. (I edited here) Whewww see? You got to be careful when telling too much about yourself on this thing. Lot's of nasty people just sitting next to their computer ready to fire off something rude and disrepsectful. Keep the faith dude!
In order to meet a serious woman in the DR you first must be serious. Coming down to the DR once, twice, even half dozen times a year is not considered serious. You are a tourist. I own property there, a business etc, etc, etc and have my residency. But, I do not live there full time. I have met wonderful women there that have educations and come from a good educated family. However, I do not live there full time and well, it is nearly impossble to keep a serious relationship going if you are not serious about it.
This will all change soon as I retire and will finally be able to live there and be taken seriously by serious minded women and their families.
Move down there, assimilate yourself into the culture, learn the Spanish language, it is a beautiful language. By all means get the heck away from tourist towns if you have no business being there. If you do go to these towns NEVER tell the serious girl or her family that you do so and pray that her cousins do not see you there. Go to the universities, the parks and monuments and you will soon see that those wonderful women will be there. Tell them you actually live there and then you will see sincerity.
Good luck!