Heart ripped Out
Wow ! What terrible experience, but I can truly conmiserate with you because something very similar happened to me. It was my second marriage and our relationship was so incredibly perfect.....at first. Our courtship was like something out of a storybook. We flew to Las Vegas (Nevada) and got married in one of those pretty little commercial chappels they have there. Only 2 hours after the marriage I noticed little changes in her that I won't go into. I didn't let it bother me too much at that time though. As the months went by her attitude toward me became to be very similar to what your ex had toward you. Consider it a blessing that she revealed herself early enough for you to make an easy change. In my case the marriage lasted only 2 years. I told her let's end the marriage now instead of waiting 10 years down the road. It was the wisest thing that I have ever done because it opened the door for me to be with my present wife, 100% dominica and my true media naranja.
So, in my opinion your heartbreak is just the medium that will lead you to happiness. There are thousands of fine women in the DR just who are just praying, waiting and hoping to meet someone just like you and are ready to give you back 110% for you 100%.
Adelante and don't forget to count your blessings.
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