I am sorry for your broken heart. I am also sorry indeed a 26 year old allowed herself to be influenced by the opinions of her "Mommy"...S**t happens but you ought not let it "get ya down" - it doesn't help matters!
Get rid of the "fly's" that wanna lay eggs in ya "plated heart" and remember Scotty's words. When ya that low it stands to reason that "the only way is up" so brush yaself down, force a smile and look forward to better things to come...I wish you luck! ATB! Emma