Ok guys be nice.
To the original poster, I'm sorry you were used and abused. It's not an easy thing to get over emotionally and financially. I realize how much you must be hurting and how you'd like to save everyone from going through the same thing but it's very hard. People do what they do and telling them of your own bad experience doesn't always help others to see the light.
It seems like a very difficult thing to find a good guy but I do know of many that are and the relationships have worked out.
Everyone needs to find their own path in their own time. Some work others don't. It's part of life.
I do wish you would have found DR1 earlier, it may have helped you see the signs but then again some read the signs but don't see them.
