Thanks for the comments however
I am not desperate, fat or ugly!!! I too enjoyed my life during the period of three years we lost contact. And I do not fault him for dating/being with other women during the time apart. For all either one of knew we were never to see each other again.
I would think of him often but had no way to contact him. I almost think this was a second chance meeting and I need to take advantage of it. I watched him all week at the resort and he was always busy running around. ( he is the supervisor of animation) I didnt see him mingle with the guests as the rest of the staff did.
He hs never given me reason to doubt his intentions. I guess reading through these threads has put doubt in my head, but again, I don't want to punish him based on a majority.
My thoughts are to go and visit. He wants to take a week off so I can go with him Santo Domingo and see everyone we used hang around with. See his family ( who I met many years ago) and show me the house he has built since I last was there. I can't see any harm in this, but I am sure the rest of you will
Life is way too short to not take advantage of the small gifts given to us. I have lost someone very close to me in the last year which has really made me re-think what is most important in life.
My mother always said "your heart wants what it wants...just make sure you want the same"