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Old 10-13-2006, 08:05 AM
snowqueen snowqueen is offline
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Default While trust can be an issue..

we are all human, and have lapses in judgement. Who knows what was going through his mind at the time. Does divorce carry a huge stigma in DR? It is old news here & people are not judged by it these days, but things were different even just 30 years ago in NA. People were labelled by getting divorced and often lost friends because of the stigma attached to it.

If this is the only incident of a broken trust, then she really needs to sit down & figure out, does she love him? Is he good to her and the children? People make mistakes, and if this is the only one in their entire courtship/marriage, I believe she should think twice before splitting up the family. But, keep a eye on him. If broken trust is a pattern in the relationship, dump him fast.