lying is wrong, but...
I think lying is wrong, so I'm not defending what he did, but that doesn't negate 4 1/2 years of working together as a couple to build a life together. Why is the instant reaction always to run away, to pitch the baby with the bath water? Why not go to speak to someone, like a relationship counselor before the lawyer, why is the lawyer always the first call? Relationships are hard and this is admittedly a big bump and it might have broken the trust completely, but why not at least see first if there is a chance to repair it before making that decision?
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