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Originally Posted by MaineGirl
At any rate, I am very sorry for you, the original poster. From the way it is written I am assuming you are talking about yourself. You have quite a bit of emotion invested.
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You know what they say about assuming...
I do have some emotion invested because the "wife" is a close friend of mine and she is hurting. We have been friends a long time and worked together for years. When she met this guy and it looked like the relationship might be going somewhere, she brought him here and introduced him to all of us before the engagement. We accepted him immediately because of the person that she was. If she trusted him, so did we.
Do you actually think that she would tell this story to anyone but a close friend... heck, her family doesn't even know the reasons they are having problems.
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Originally Posted by MaineGirl
I have no other thoughts or advice; the fact is that there may be a relationship that can be salvaged but it is going to be a lot of work and take years to mend...
or, maybe there is no real relationship to fix. Maybe it was a ruse to get to some new place and find a better life regardless of the cost to get there.
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And therein lies the question...