Celery, were you interested in moving to the DR before you met this guy? 7 months ago what did you plan to do when you finished college? If you have read this forum, you know that DR can be paradise and it can be the exact opposite at times if you're not ready for it. Going there would be a life altering experience, but be sure that it is the life that YOU want for you, not for some guy.
I know you're in love, but please be cautious because you're in dangerous water.
Also just FYI, I would give you this same advise if you were thinking of moving across the country for a man, not just to a different country. Picking up and leaving family and friends and the safety net that they bring is a huge decision so please don't take it lightly. You make yourself vulnerable depending on just one person, so please be very careful. I don't know anything about your novio so I won't make judgements on him, but you do and this is the time to look with your eyes wide open and make a decision that is best for you and your future.
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