You are a fish out of water, so listen up. Do not let this girl get the better of you because dominican women do not respect this. Every time you call and she does'nt pick up she's with another guy, guaranteed. You need to consider this thoughtfully.
So she's pretty-so what? You'll get over her looks soon enough when you get tired of the missed phone calls and broken dates. This may be difficult for you to understand but a beautiful girl is not the type you want a relationship with in the DR-get a girl who is nice looking but nothing special and worry more about her personality and how she treats YOU. The beautiful ones are the ones you fool around with on the side.
If she's beautiful she knows she can get away with treating you the way she does. Don't let her. Oh, and by the way, since you are NOT dominican, let them think you're cheap for not paying her friends' way. You just tell her in plain language that you don't do that PERIOD. If her friends want a free night out tell them to go get their boyfriends.
I understand that you are new to the country but that does not mean you have to be weak. Affirm yourself, go out with other girls and lie to them all. You'll be dominicanized in no time and you'll have better looking babes falling all over you in no time if that's what you want.
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