Are you a fool??? Nah! I don't think so - clever enough to join here before you married him weren't you??? NO FOOL AT ALL!!!
THINK CAREFULLY about marriage so soon though - I know my partner so well that he thinks it funny to shove my head under the blankets when he's farted!!! KNOW this guy warts an' all before you marry for God's sake!!!
KNOW him!!!
Wishing you well but advising you to apply the breaks some! Emma (There have been happy stories here by the way - just very, very few and far between!!)