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Old 12-07-2006, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Lwoodall View Post
I met a very pretty woman on the internet from Santo Domingo. I am from the United States. We chatted for about 3 months and then I had to go see her. She is beautiful. She, and her family, are very poor. I know the traps, however, I have fallen in love with her. When we were in Santo Domingo, her mother stayed with us constantly, which makes me think, she is a good women. We have not had sex, she says she thinks, we should be married, first. I am 54 and divorced and she is 28 and single, with no children. I am thinking about marriage, seriuosly and living in the DR with her. I need some advice, is my head on straight or crooked? I am at the point in my life, I want someone to be with until I die. I have looked in her eyes and I see love, which I THINK, I am a good judge of good and bad people. The problem is , my heart is as big as the moon, which hs gotten me in trouble, thru out my life, but I still chase my heart's dreams to try to be happy on this earth.
from, Helpless, but not really helpless.

Kind gent,

keep in mind that she may really like you but to her she may be thinking that she will benefit from your headstart of experience and situation ie. your money and living in the states. if you feel like you see the love there nothing we can say here will detour you from pursuing her. i would tell her (even if you have no intentions of doing so) that since she wants to wait on sex until marriage then you would rather just give everything up here and move there. and make her think her living conditions wont change if she's with you. and hopefully the two of you will be happy there together.

good luck
cdi.