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Originally Posted by danceaway
....I havent talked to him for months, ....
he said he will get an apartment for us, he has one picked out, its perfect, ...
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the little details that people miss......that dont add up is where your clues are.....when the BS starts to flow others can se it, but usually the person involved cant....you havent talked for month but he already has an apartment picked.. and it is just waiting all these months for you to make up your mind...
id say that to eventually breath deep again...you have to go SEE for your self....YOU HAVE TO.....you will second guess your life for years and years...if you dont....you will be miserable, and worse you will make who ever you do end up living with miserable as well...while you toss and turn about WHAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN....
the other side ( which isnt as bad in the long run) is you go and find out it was a hoax, and scam...total BS...you get broken hearted...but you WILL get over that...maybe in less than a year....when you find out and the romance is dead....it will have a closing chapter, that you CAN WALK away from... and then you will get on with your life... and the next person you meet and fall for that relationship would....HAVE A CHANCE.....
good luck
what ever you do, totally ignore AZB... ha ha ha
bob