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Originally Posted by danceaway
All of you have given me some very good advise and even if I dont necessarily like what I read, I have to say Thanks, you took the time to at least give me your input, insight and advise. And have made me think about many things.
I just got off the phone with my "husband" as he calls himself, ( and he calls me wife....I dont get that, but, yes, I think its sweet, maybe I am just a fool for such dribble) and I think I will go to see if this is the real thing. And yes, I do think it is strange that he has an apartment picked out for us after we havent talked for months, but maybe the truth of the matter is that it was his apt. with someone else, and she wised up...who knows...I have read many interesting things here...
I have many things to take care of first, and I do need to sit down and be honest with the guy that I am living with right away. I do not want to hurt him, especially since he knows the guy in the DR and they were friends during our first visit there. They talked after that and continued to be friends. I told my "husband" that I wasnt with the guy here any more the last time I was there, and he begged me to stay then, but I couldnt because I had many problem and things to sort out here, as we had problems in our 17 year relationship already. I wasnt sure at that time what to do. ( yes, I was the biggest problem, I should never have lied, to either guy, or myself ) Maybe I do just like the attention...maybe I do need help, but I honestly do not want to hurt anyone. Maybe I am just in a 17 year rut and the time to get on with my life is now. I think that I will just go down there and get my own place and see how things go. Trust me, there will be no visa , no property sold
(I have already put all of it in trust for my children and grandkids, and that is something nobody can or will talk me into changing, ever, and he knows this !!! HE WILL NEVER GET THAT, NOBODY WILL EXCEPT MY FAMILY, THE TRUST CANT BE CHANGED ! THAT IS A DEFINATIVE CONDITION OF THIS TRUST!!!) Maybe I just need to really try this from a different approach. Thanks, and I hope I get my head on straight, cause my
'husband" has really twisted it around...maybe thats the plan, so I cant see straight, so I wont know what happened when the bus hits me.........Thanks again, and Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year to all of you.
( I hope I will get the opportunity to post some good news about how all this turns out. I guess anything is possible )
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This post just proves that what I have been telling you for months is true:
YOU ARE A INSANE!!.
Now you are calling him "my husband", man, talk about desperation. I hope he doesn't ask you to jump off a bridge.
Leaving a relationship of 17 years, problems or no problems, for "the unknown", is beyond me!.
You are nothing more than one of these desperate women Dominican men can control and wipe their butts with. That moron is controlling you as if you were a little puppet.
With all honesty, you are a accident waiting to happen.
An I the only one who thinks that you sound like a 5 years old kid who hasn't had a "UMMM GOOD SEX/BANG SESSION" in a long time?. Plain SPOOKY!.
There 2 last things I want to tell you:
1- Don't forget to read some of the threads "talking" about desperate women leaving their homelands to be with some lowlife in the DR only to be beaten and in some cases killed by them.
2- Please, don't forget to see a shrink!. You have to stop listening to that "little voice" in your head.
Man, the "wonders" a little piece of meat can do. Pure amazing!!.
"BINBIN" FOR PRESIDENT!!!!!!!!!!.