They don't realize that it's happening to them. If they did they wouldn't be sucked in. It's like any other con. You're not anticipating it so you're not looking out for it. By the time you realize what's happening it's too late. You've been drawn in, led down a path and eventually emotionally devastated.
" Normal" people don't this to other people. It's really sick that someone could take advantage of someone's vulnerbilities but there are people that lie and wait for people like that. This is their sole function in life. They are blood suckers/parasites.
I wonder how they treat the elderly, mentally ill, retarded, and animals?
I think people question what's happened to them because they trying to come to grips and accept that they have been taken advantage of. I think that's why they don't readily accept the advice. They haven't fully accepted that fact. They're still struggling with the concept.
It's painful to realize that you've used and to realize that the person that YOU cared about didn't care about you. It was all a BIG FAT LIE. They are embarassed and humiliated. " I've been played the fool" " How could've been so stupid" " All that money I sent" If you are older and less attractive he made you feel special and now you feel even worse about yourself and probably ashamed.
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