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Originally Posted by MeLlamanChinita
so heres the deal.
i have a dominican BF and i love him to death and he loves me too. but we didnt know each other very long cuz live in the US and him in the DR. i had school so i had to return to the states. hes planning to come to the US. and he wants to visit me b4 i go study abroad in Spain. but he told me he wont have saved enough money by then so hes asking to borrow some money. like 100 dollars. i work so that not THAT much money but i know to some thats a fortune. i can easily give him the money, and it doesnt really matter if he doesnt pay me back. but the thing is i feel kinda used. but am i being used if he wants the money to come see me? and i know were not going to last (cmon, reality check) so is it even worth it? 
and im asian (i know, dominican + asian?) with strict asian parents. he is dominican and you know los dominicanos....crazy, fun loving people.
as of now im gonna send him the money. maybe my judgement is messed up from all the good sex and his dominican charm (good dominican genes). 
and also is it weird to see a dominican dating an asian? i dunno, i havent really seen it b4. maybe once in santo domingo. |
I think you are posting this for a reason. If you have any doubts, and it sounds like you do. Then you shouldn't send the money. It doesn't matter if you can afford it or not. It is your money and you shouldn't have to give it to someone because they make you feel guilty.
Also what do you think the odds are that he is actually only $100 short of coming. Not to mention the paperwork.
Good luck.