just got back and met a guy
I am very confused right now!
In your first posting on this board - see link above - you stated that you had just got back from the DR and met this guy!
Then Mart (something or rather) came on and said that this is her husband and to not listen to you, you have never even been to the DR. I don't think you could actually call this a "call for help" for a girlfriend, can you?
Give it up - he is married and moving to Canada (maybe - there are some problems with his visa - see Legal forum).
Why are you playing these games?
Marlie