Been married almost 3 years now, 2 kids, life's good
Long time no post, Hi Anna, hope your well. Anyways, met my wife in 2002, I was a player who just wanted quickies, ran scams on normal girls to get a piece and paid working girls. Met a real nice girl, Yesenia, was cramping my style so tried to find everything wrong with her and imagine that she was gold digger, loose morals because I got her in the family way, and she wasn't a working girl if anyone must know. Eventually got her and our son Howie here in 2004, got married. Eventually I was totally honest about my past and how I was and we worked everything out. It's true honesty is a great policy for a mariage. I love that woman with my whole heart and she's the one for me, no more games, etc. A good woman can change someone. We had another son, Ryan born in October 2006. She works, we now have a small hair salon inside of her home, it's her house but lets her widowed mom and sisters live there, in Guajaca (just outside of Sajoma) where we also have 4 tareas for our future home. She still works at the same place about 2 years now as a cashier in a retailer, we have a good sized downpayment saved up for a future home in Michigan. Couldn't ask for a better woman. She is learning to save and plan for future, she likes to spend money on whims, usually stuff for the boys. For Valentine's I bought her the wedding ring set she deserved. I feel any good woman can change someone or vice versus if you're ready for it and let your guard down/feelings show. Nationality has nothing to do with it in most areas dealing with the heart. I'm much happier now than I was just 5 years ago when I thought my life was great and I'd rather chew my arm off then be saddled down with a family. I'll try to post some recent pics of the boys.
dale7 Howard
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