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Originally Posted by EnglishGirl
Thanks for that Kyle!!
But my dilemma is should I try pursue it or let it go? On one hand I read all the happy ending stories and think that maybe one day it could be me but then on the other hand I don't want to be made a fool of.
I can't find anyone else while I feel like this but then I don't want to find anyone else either.
Is he a sankie??
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I think most of the people will tell you to punt this fellow mainly for the fact that he is an entertainment worker in a tourist area. Read these forums to understand the mentality. More than likely to him you are a ticket out of the DR - just because he has a brother in Germany means very little in fact. If he has been denied a travel visa already there is no reason to think that he will be accepted in the future.
I married a Dom. women and I'm American but we met in the interior where the attitude towards foreigners is different. This is not to say that you can't find a good Dominican in the tourist areas but honestly it will be difficult mainly for the fact that the locals have lots of prejudices about foreigners and even pressure to "get one" ie. a gringa