I hope that most of us do not sit in judgement on those who pay and those who enjoy their payments. What we do try to do is to share some of the challenges in cross-cultural relationships, especially when it involves the huge differences in freedoms and possibilities experienced in "First World" Vs. "Third World" (aka "Developing") countries.
Let me be frank, were I born a poor Dominican, I would grab the first Ticket Out that crossed my path. As would most of you. The difference is that we are blessed to live with means, however small they may seem, that allow us to never be forced to make such decisions.
End of speech.
