My questions are:
Q) What are the comparisons one could make with North America to make us understand how a resort worker is so different from the average Dominican?
(Would it be like dating someone who worked at McDonald's or dating a guy on welfare)?
A) There is no comparison. In North America it is not culturally the norm to shower a man with gifts and pay for a night out. We call this a pimp and pimps are the scum of the earth.
-A guy here on welfare will be dating a loser like himself or he will be alone. Unless the guy got caught out in bad life circumstances and is using the help because he needs it and is in school or some type of training program. Sankies are not like this. They are out to sweet talk their way to gain material possessions and eventually that visa.
-Women who date sankies care about dating a younger guy with a tight body. Doesn't matter whether he is cute or not, just as long as he fits the stereotype of the virile dark-skinned tropical native who is great in bed and has a large member. No corresponding comparisons can be made as this does not exist for the most part in North America.
Q) How is it that Sankies can be so proud of their conquests that they brag to others about it when it is supposedly so shameful a thing in the DR?
(This I've read many times here)
A) Of course they are proud and brag about their conquests. If you are vermin, would you rather be a cockroach or a waterbug? Sankies are the waterbugs in their world, which is infested and populated with vermin. They are the big shots, so of course they will brag. Even vermin need to feel like they are somebody.
-And when they brag about their conquests its sort of like drug dealers bragging about how big a house they have or how nice a car they drive. Drug dealers may be scum, but their cash gets them respect in certain circles just like it does the sankie.
Q) I guess it is just very difficult for me to understand the mindset of these people.[/quote]
A) I was talking to a very beautiful dominican chica here in NYC. Shes' pretty and knows it. Even though she works she would rather not. She was talking about a friend of hers back in Santo Domingo who is being taken care of by and old man.The guy buys her everything, apartment, credit cards, the works. She spoke about her friend with envy.
-Its' like anything else in life-why work for something you want when you can just lay down for it? From the viewpoint of the sankie it is the same. Girls here in the atates do it all the time, except in the DR the roles are reversed with the sankie.
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