I think that if a man thinks his girl is using him (sankiette), he can easily drop her and move on. He may tell a couple of friends, be angry for a bit, but greatful he got some a** anyways. They think "she has a problem, she tried to con me"
Some women on the other hand will want to know the how, when, why, and where of the situation (sankie) and will usually not move on until they feel they have all the answers they need. They think "was I the problem, what's wrong with me that he would try to con me"
So women are more likely to post in order to get the answers they are looking for.
Some people here will post in order to give some good advice and help out a stranger. Other's post to get laughs from posters on the forum, cause a ruckus, or because they have nothing better to do with thier time.
I agree it is useless for someone to try to convince the board that thier man is not a Sankie, but some of the same posters attack people who just post about a bad Sankie experience.
Thread after thread the same posters come up with the same mean spiritted comments, and then write "I am trying to help". Often I see that rather than dealing with the questions at hand these frequent posters criticize peoples, looks, places of origion, spelling ability, etc...
They remind me of a group of school yard bullies.
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