Alyonka, Musicqueen: you are a successful woman with a future, that makes a big difference.
If you are a woman with no cash, no education, and no property and live in a country largely populated by men who are not finacailly stable you might feel differently.
Now you meet some nice charming man who is willing to set up a long term relationship.....
I see lots of girls here who are just looking for someone responsible to be attached to. even if they have to share him. There are maybe 20 "good" girls here to every one responsible man. even $$ issues aside, It makes a huge competion. why would you even want to bother spending time with the losers?
and please dont shut up, I havent had a good arguement with you for years
