I have lived and visited many places and was never tempted - I can always tell when a guy is just hitting on me in order to use and get disgusted with the idea. I don't like being used. In the DR it was different. I guess I really needed to get over something. I was not there to fall in love or lust, the guy I talked to was not there for that either. I just needed to talk to and understand a Dominican man of more or less the same age and social standing as my ex lover. I never got to talk normally to him or even understand him - wanted to figure something out for myself and achieved it.
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