Tell her what you've learned in advance or give her a link to some of the posts you think are most informative. Tell her you want to see if it really happens, then with her point out the guys with their women. When one's aware of what's going on - it becomes almost comical.
Better to inform her in advance than after the fact when she's convinced someone 'really' loves her. If that doesn't work... well what more can you do than not take her on vacation?
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