Difference with Punta Cana & Cabarete?

Is there a difference in living between Punta Cana & Cabarete/Sosua?

I've lived in Cabarete/Sosua for 8 month and had to return home, now I want to go back in DR, but I'm thinking of Punta Cana instead.

Cabarete/Sosua has changed a lot and all the Projects are becoming Non Secure, there is no more Secured gated community! EX: Perla Marina, Playa Laguna, of course the Sea Horse Ranch still have security, but it's only for the very high class folks.

Also the locals are starving for $$, and keep bugging everyone for a buck, they also come to your house and ask if you have 10 pesos to give them.

Also, I've heard that Punta Cana have their own rules! Is it true?

Gracias.
Sabine