my friend, it appears that you are doing the right thing! seeking help is a good start. But look at it this way - (1) if it takes you the dicipline to sit and read the instructions, I strongly suggest that you do this first - be patient; (2) with the "insight" from what you have read, speak with someone who has "already invedted that wheel" - doesnt necessarialy have to be an attorney; (3) go back and with the patience and discipline, read again the instructions! (note: if it were to take you two hours a day to read to "comprehension" what the instructions state, would this not be but a miniscule "effort" on your part, considereing what you set out to do, and what you have accomplished thus far? YES, YOU SHOULD BE PATTED ON THE BACK FOR DOING THE RIGHT THING BY YOUR FIANCE AND THE CHILD - enjoy that "ffel good" feeling, you deserve it! Now do some more work, you can do it!
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