If she wont get on the forum to read up on Sankies herself, then print out some of the info from here and give to her...
Once she starts reading how much her Sankie Boyfriend sounds like the rest of them out there, maybe she'll come to grips with the situation.
However, from an total stranger reading your post online, your friend doesnt sound too stable to me in the first place. You mentioned a boyfriend, a son and the fact that you have seen her like that before... what does that mean exactly, that you've seen her in lust? or head over heels for a stranger, or throwing away all dignity and reason out the window for nothing?
Actually if she was foolish enough to go overseas and fall in love in two days - then it doesnt sound like there's nothing much you can do for her. She is a spur of the moment type of gal from what I can read and probably cannot easily be swayed away once her mind has been made up.
If you are her friend and want to be there for her, you can help her up once she falls - thats if you have the patience to see this train wreck and then offer to put the pieces back together.
I dont have such patience, so God bless if you do... I wish you and your friend the best. Good luck.
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