If you are golfers, go to Playa Grande Golf Course. If you are not golfers, go to Playa Grande Golf Course anyway! That's where the "older" men will be. It would be a great day trip to see the beach, take the Laguna Gri-Gri boat trip in nearby Rio San Juan, and even ask to stop at the fruit plantation. There may not be a lot of eligible men at the fruit plantation, but it is a fascinating collection of all the fruits that grow on the island, complete with demonstrations of harvesting and free samples. Otherwise, Cabarete is a great fun spot day or night--there are a lot of young, athletic types, but plenty of not-so-young athletic and fun-loving types too. Enjoy--but don't ride on the moto-conchos. Muy pelligrosso.