Listen you are having bad vibes about him otherwise you wont be posting here. You said this clear that you dont know him long enough.
10K in ten month what do you expect his expenses will be after he get to the USA?
I do anything not to ask money to my wife, use my credit card, worst to worst I get a ****ty job at least to have some money.
RUN before is too late! tell me how happy he gets when you dont give him money and when you give him?
Pack your stuff and go home before is too late. Got not class, not shame, not pride to tell you "ask money to your parents"
Dont take that nightmare to the US, I have the feeling you will do it anyway
believe me you lost the trust already then will be the denial stage then thing will get worse when you are going to open you eyes and will be too late.
I can be wrong but that **** about his parents not giving him afection thats the wrong excuse for him not to be affectionated with you. In his mind you run out of money why he would have affection for you and the worst for him is that you are are there.
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Originally Posted by Stingray
To answer your questions, yes, he did practice medicine for a short time here using a friend's license # but did not want problems and after an issue with his boss left the company. I saw his ID for the company he said he worked for, so I believe this.
I have absolutely no doubts that he is a real doctor. I have seen his diploma and transcripts, and all his medical books are in our house. I have personally visited his medical school with him and met several of his teachers (we did this b/c he was missing some crucial documents that were stolen out of his uncle's house). His passport does have all visas in it. I have visited the cancillaria (sp? sorry) in the capital with him to get these papers legalized. The holdup on the license is supposedly coming from the government here in the DR. He filed the papers to obtain it in August but whenever he goes to the office, they tell him the license is not ready yet and promise to have it the next month. Is this typical Dominican government?
He applied for the medical license here before we applied for the visa. His reasons were 1. so I didn't think he married me for the visa and 2. because neither of us knew exactly how long the visa process would take and he would need to work in the meantime, preferably in his profession.
Yes, he has researched what would be involved to practice medicine in the US. He has contacted both the Army and Navy to see what they can do to help since this would provide him with immediate income and insurance while he is studying to take the exams. He also has researched the exam itself, I believe it is called the MLE, online to see what he needs to do.
I guess what really bothers me the most is the outrageous amount of money that I have spent while here. It is more than I would have paid for rent & food living in NJ! Also, he spends a lot of time (without me) in the capital, supposedly researching the license and getting money from his uncles to help pay the bills. Usually visits are 3-4 days at a time, and he does not always come home with money, maybe only 60% of the time. These are all red flags for me...  |