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Originally Posted by rsg
thats the thing i cant understand. Why the newbies come down here and feel that they need to do so much, and give so much to keep one of these bario chicas. There is nothing wrong if a guy enjoys that type of company,[probably the only kind he can get] but they need to realize that there is no reason to buy it and pay a weekly western union payment on it when they can just come down and pay a small rental fee when they are here. Rent it, enjoy it, then turn it back in with no more money due to the bario she came from..
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Exactly. Thanks rsg and DR1 (or robert).
I learned a similar lesson when i was sending my girlfriend in the philipines money for her "sick son or sick mother or eleectricity bills" etc etc. only to find out she bought a car and managed to get a house before i returned. but i should be thanking her because i learned a lesson.
"why do we fall, so we can learn to pick ourselves up".
do the minimum and let them please you. not the other way around. and you can be the alpha male to them over their tigres.