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Originally Posted by liam1

I think the OP is asking why are those girls more attracted to the barrio bum who can not and does not want to help the girl in any way other than sexually, then to the gringo who is responsible, educated, financially stable and so on. What the gringo is doing wrong is simply being too nice and in turn he is looked upon as a loser who can't get any wherever it is he came from. I think those girls know they are nothing special but also they know that the gringo can not do any better than them, because if he could then he wouldn't be with them in the first place. The best thing you can do is turn the tables on them, you use them for sex and fun, along the way spend a few bucks on her, but only WHEN SHE IS WITH YOU, don't let her take any of your money with her. If you are together pay her the most expensive dinner and vine, but don't give her one peso to take home. When upon return to the barrio the tiguere sees she's back empty handed he won't be that happy to see her. Then it's only you who's giving her any attention, and she'll be glad to see you every time. Either that or she will, at the tiguere's instructions, go looking for someone dumb to bleed dry. Win-win for you.

This should be a made a sticky. Well Said Liam