I think the point is that men aren't typically quite as gullible as women ...
We are used to having to spend money on chicks anywhere we are - so i know for myself I'd rather meet a chick in town somewhere a bit more organically for vacation sex with. A hotel worker I'd gladly lay, but I think I'd know right away if she jumped into the sack with me in the same hotel she worked...i'd know she was 'working' me...
I'd probably let my guard down a bit if I were in town and met a girl away from the hotel.
example- I was in Colombia back end of last year. we were playing around all over the place with all the locals and generally have a grand old time.
Day before we left we were in the next town over (Cartagena) and had a scheduled right to take us back to our hotel (Barranquilla) in 20 minutes.
Saw a girl on the street walking buy as we drank a beer. Did the cat calling, etc...invited her to my table...bought her a beer.
within 10 minutes of her sitting there- asked if she wanted to come back to barranquilla with me and hang out all night, etc (her friend lived in BAQ. she of course said yes but she had to leave later than we were leaving. gave her the address and phone numbers of the hotel and she gave me cell phone. she asked for money for a taxi to come see me. i said i would when she showed up. i said- if you are not at my hotel by 8pm that I would fly the coup and not be waiting for her. Also told her i was leaving for the airport the next day at 5pm.
she did not show up that night...no big deal.
next day i was in the hotel at 2pm and she and her friend showed up. we 'hung' out for a couple hours and as it was time to leave i give her a few pesos for her taxi ride...
she was asking all the questions:
how often do you come to Barranquilla?
do you own your own business?
would you be my boyfriend?
when are you coming back to see me again?
please stay in contact with me.
and as I had to checkout - I sent her on her way.
"Papi Yo te amo. yo quiero estar su novia. can you give me a little more money to take a taxi to my house?"
I saw thru it like a cheap suit...
"Claro que si mi amor- yo te quiero mucho...tu eres mi vida...tu eres muy linda...tu eres todo"
while looking directly into her eyes...
"yeah baby I'll call you back."
kinda a colombian female sankie ...
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