Maybe it's just me but this is a no brainer! Get yourself out of the country as soon as reasonably possible and back to the U.S. You have an unborn child to think about. Do not concern yourself with whatever reasons he may have married you for at this point nor whether you will ever get a penny from this guy, which is unfortunately doubtful. It's hard enough to get money from irresponsible men once the baby is born so I think you are expecting a lot to think he will be supporting you now considering that it doesn't sound like you have any future plans to be together. Consider it a cheap lesson since your child's future is at stake and that there is a real possibility that he may try and prevent you from leaving. Do not tell him when you are leaving nor show him signs that you are winding down and planning on leaving sooner rather than later. You said you have assets in the U.S. so even though you will not regain the money you lent him for a car, you obviously won't be completely broke. Go home and start over. From the little information you have given on your situation, this is how I see it.
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