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Originally Posted by Mariposatje
Ok we went a few times to the disco where he introduced me to his friends. Then I read that sankies give you the time of your life on holiday, while he sometimes gave me the opposite feeling. He didn't ignore me, but it was not the perfect picture.
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He is giving you all the signs that he has stopped being interested. Introducing you to friends in the disco is saying 'take her off my hands, I have other fish to fry'. Probably these other women you mention are richer or in some way a better prospect. But either way, thank your lucky stars! You've escaped the ongoing turmoil that many women experience. It started in November and by April it was time expired; this is NOT destined to be a long term relationship. Don't bother putting any energy into finding out whether he's playing with you; his behaviour has already told you he is. Why the ongoing phone calls? Well, chances are you're paying for them and it's his way of boosting his rating among his male friends.
Congratulate yourself on being extremely fortunate to have found out early on, not to have lost too much money (we hope!) and move on and find a decent guy. Come back & look at this thread in a year's time & laugh at it. Good luck to you.