Badpiece got it. You can try to suppress the fact that you're a man and like other women all you want but that will never go away. It's a physiological thing. Now in our societies it's been drilled into us since we're little that "cheating" is a bad thing and shouldn't be done and as a result some people do suppress those feelings, others would probably like to but don't have a lot of choices so they stay with that one woman - Maybe they feel that's the best they can do.
Anyhow, Why do women stay? Mostly is because it is not seen as big of a deal in The DR as it is in The US. People would look at the woman like "Is she crazy staying around after this?" Kind of like you are right now...But in The DR there's not the same reaction from peers thus is a lot easier to stay in the relationship.
If on the other hand it was the woman who cheated it would be extremely hard for the guy to stay in the relationship even if he wanted to due to that same peer pressure. Every other guy would look at him like he was such a puss...it would be unbearable.
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